Trust Me Girls

Girls trust me on this one:

a) Don't complain about how you hate how your boyfriend treats you, and how you and he always fight, if it really bothered you that much, then you'd do something about it.

b) If you honestly think that having sex with your boyfriend in high school is a smart decision? Then you thought wrong. The only reasons that your having sex with him are as stated: your insecure about yourself, you don't get enough attention at home, you think it will keep him around a little longer, or your trying to compete and/or be like all the other hoes you go to school with. Why not save yourself for someone who really matters. Someone you'll be with longer than a few measly months. Smart Decision? Yeah, I think so too.

c) If he cheats on you, DONT FORGIVE HIM! It didn't just slip his mind that he had a girlfriend and that what he was doing was wrong, he knew it was wrong all along. So make him pay for it, don't just keep him around, you'll never be able to fully trust him again, and you know it. And if your one of those girls who just gets pissed at the girl that he cheated on you with then your dumber than I thought. Yes, she’s responsible for 50% of what happened but he's responsible for the other 50%. It takes two to tango.

d) Don't even try and say you wish you didn't have feelings for your boyfriend, and that its just too hard to not be with him. Because if you didn't want to have feelings for him, then you wouldn't, and if you didn't want to be with him, you wouldn't be. So don't try to make excuses for your stupidity. Face the facts. And MOVE ON.

e) Almost all couples in High School claim to "Love" each other. But c'mon, be realistic here. You don't even know what love is. Your still in High School, you've had maybe what, a few serious relationships in your time? You don't have enough experience to know what something even close to love is. Your not even an adult yet, so don't say things that aren't true.

f) Don't plan your future around your boyfriends. Pick the college you want to go to and the career you want to fulfill, not what your boyfriend wants to do, or where he's going to school. You didn't think that you'd actually still be together when you leave High School did you? Oh, wow, you did. That's sad. Well again, be realistic, and stop living your life in fantasy land. WAKE UP There’s plenty of boys out there that you are going to want to meet and get to know, your not gunna want to be tied down when those situations come around the corner.

g) Stop taking relationships so seriously and getting all depressed about them. Its High School, the only thing your supposed to take seriously is your education. Not meaningless relationships, that will end almost as soon as they start.

h) And no, guys you meet on myspace are not real boyfriends. I'm not going to name names, but "some people" think that they are real. Don’t try to say you like a boy you meet on myspace and fall head over heels for him, and then be devastated when things "don't work out" Don’t try and tell your friends you know him and that you've hungout with him when you haven't. 100% of the time they know your full of sh*t. Grow up. Stop living in cyberspace and get a real life and a real boyfriend if you even can.

Don’t try to tell me I don’t know what I'm talking about girls. Don't try to tell me that I wouldn't know because I don't have enough experience in these departments. Because I don't need to have gone through what you do to know this stuff. I know, because I learn from stupid girls like you.
xoxo Lexx